First time lesbian sex
Having lesbian sex for the first time is like eating a massive cherry pie. A little tricky, hot and delicious. If you think you are a card carrying, you’ve found a girl that you would like to get naked with or you just want to know what it’s like to get down and dirty with a woman, then these are some tips. From a person who had her first time with her boss. In a garage. So yeah maybe don’t pay that much attention.
It’s not something you can teach yourself from manuals or off the internet before you go in. It’s putting-a-cork-back-in-the-wine-bottle pointless to try. You won’t really know what’s going on down there until you’re down there so to speak. But it will feel right once you are. I doubt you’re going to see it then run off screaming in the direction of some penis and balls. It may or it may be intense and you’ll know which bit goes where straight away or it may be really fumbly and giggly
For Gods Holy Jesus’s sake cut your nails. I talk about this a lot but until you’ve been fucked with long nails and it feels like a family of ants have moved up there and are continuously biting you, you have no idea how painful it can be. With hair down there, if you like it, then keep it. Never be pressured into the whining-talking-like-a-five-year-old bodies that porn stars have. But the same, if you don’t like it then get rid. There just isn’t a particularly haircut that you’re ‘meant’ to have as a lesbian.
What does help in the situation is that you have the same body as the person you’re sexing. So if you know what pleases you it can help a lot. Whether she likes the same thing is a gamble but at least you’ll know how to guide her into what you like. And so you’re first time may be an amazing pool of pink unicorns and rainbows, even if hers isn’t. And her vagina may look different to yours. I don’t mean it will be purple with green spots or have little men skiing down it but the shape and size may vary. So don’t freak out. The only thing I’ve really struggled with was a pierced clit. I sort of just stared at it like ‘What the shit am I meant to do with you?’
When it gets to actually doing things with them, don’t dive bomb straight down there. I know it may be very tempting to see what it looks like but you have to pay attention to all her other lovely bits aswell such as her boobs, her ears and her wrists. Any part of her that you haven’t seen naked before. And what you do on your first time is totally up to you too. If you want to crack open the sex toys, cover the girl in peanut butter and fuck until the sun comes up then go for it, but also if all you want to do is sit in onesies and stroke her boobs while watching Harry Potter then that’s fine too.
What I would suggest to you is find out what type of lesbian she is. If she doesn’t like to be touched, she’s not joking or doing it for attention, she really does not want her vagina being touched. Also you can come across the almighty pillow queens who only want you to touch them and they won’t really do that much to you apart from move their hand around a bit before declaring they’re too tired.
And things that you may not want to read are coming next. It may not be the most exquisite moment of your life and you may not see butterflies and magic. If you’re partner doesn’t orgasm you may feel like you’re failed. You may realize it’s not really something you like doing or it might be painful if you’ve never had sex with a boy before. And all this is A-ok. I think a lot of people hold all their hopes, pleasure and answers to life great mysteries on this one time where you lie on top of someone naked and move around. You have to be patient, try again, maybe take a holiday, or take a bath as that’s where I like to ponder all my problems. Just remember that practise makes perfect.
This is meant to be a fun experience so don’t think about it too much. Never compare your body to there’s though. This is one I’m really bad for. I might be having the best fucking time of my life and then suddenly I’ll look over and be like ‘Jesus her arse is much nicer than mine,’ Cue crying and telling myself sternly that I must get to the gym more. So really, I have no fucking idea what I’m chatting about. Feel free to comment on anything or tell the wonderful readers about your first time.